As we know we meet different people everyday. Some just go by. Some make an impact on our lives. There are different people with different attitudes, different mindsets. Some are apparently good, some bad. It all completes a balance in the end. I have a habit of watching people’s faces and their personality closely. It talks a lot about them. One can get a good review of one’s characters if he observes these things closely.
I generally don’t rely on anyone easily. I am not very free to talk in early meetings either. As for me it’s very important to know how someone really is. Many people say that I am reserved and don’t talk freely but well then again ask people who are close to me. I have seen many people who start to rely even from the first meeting and many times later regret that they failed to recognize someone. Well I myself like to play safe!
Now about physical characters that talk a lot. First of all eyes. One’s confidence, his mindset can be judged from eyes alone. People with true heart talk with eye to eye contact. They have very calm eyes. They have a capability to control things and this confidence is clearly shown in their eyes. When someone lies he is bound to avoid the eye contact. Some people carry an astonishing glaze in eyes. Then people with balanced mind set have steady look. They know what they are talking about. Then there is one interesting set of people. These are not up to anything bad but they have fears. It can be anything. They want to do something good but don’t have the courage. These people are low on confidence. They will try to avoid eye contact but there is a hint of fear that can be seen. Majority of people are of this kind and they are very often mistaken for the bad people due to their body posture. Now talking about bad people, these have a rage or an aggressiveness in their eyes. These are also confident but what separates them from good one’s is the lack of calmness in the eyesight. There are many other aspects that are required to be observed. Well let me make one thing very clear here that I am not someone who is very knowledgeable in this area and this is just what I feel and yes most of my predictions are right. To sum up I will say mouth speaks what you want to while eyes talk about what you really are.
Also there are other aspects that are required to be taken into consideration. How one stands for instance. Straight legs, head held high and off course square shoulders is a good example of person high on confidence. Some people stand on either of the legs, arms straight down these are casual people. So far health and confidence are the factors that can be measured from stance. People, who are tired, are bound to have low shoulders weak legs.
Person’s tone talk about his/her mind set at that moment. People who are confident speak slowly yet steadily. Their sentences are clear and straight forward. People who talk very low are of two kinds. One is people mentioned above who are not up to anything bad but they are just confused or low on confidence. Then other kind is those who have something going on in their mind. You really need to listen to the tone closely to distinguish between them. As we know tone is very often used for different expressions. There still are a lot more things that talk about someone. Let me tell you if you start observing things I mentioned you will certainly come up with lot more distinguishing factors. Here I have just discussed about general categories of people. There a lot more than we think and as we go on observing we get astonishing founding.
Author-Devendra Oak.
